I listened to the In Our Time episode on Kali today while making a breakfast casserole. While doing this, I concluded that the women I have been attracted to in my mature moments have always been the indomitable type. The only down-side is that these gals generally ain’t romantically interested in men who have the same energy.
I once gave a Kali pendant to a woman I loved.
I like to think (most likely in my hubris) that if I ran into Kali, or Baba Yaga, or Hekate, or the Morrigan; I would charm and befriend them. Good manners is always the winning play here, and usually what you win is delicious food.