i guess it goes without saying that being involved in a relationship is a very interesting and sometimes frightening experience. but i need to say it. hell, i don’t have much experience along these lines. what y’all know is new to me. i think the two fundamental aspects that should be basic to any relationship (friend, mate, dog, whatever) are honesty and respect. its sometimes tough to be honest and give respect. listen to me offering my wisdom…ha! i know jack squat. perhaps my fundamentals are just theories. they sure sound good to me though