I am a mild sort of womanizer and I’m trying to get over it. I’m always talking about some random girl that I think is hot, and basically being a big fat middle school kid. I think my friend nailed the problem when she said:
i just think that when you are so preoccupied daily with the fact that you ain’t got a woman, the woman starts to become some sorta general object (place-filler) instead of a specific person… hence the “womanizing.”
Perhaps becoming less occupied with my perception that having no girl = lack will get me headed in the right direction.